Sex is one of the most important aspects of a healthy and fulfilling relationship. But sex can also be a source of tension and disagreement - especially when it comes to toy use. Do you want to spice up your sex life? Do you feel like you're missing out on something if you don't use sex toys?
If so, this guide is for you! In it, we'll discuss the benefits of using sex toys, how to make it an experience for both of you, and guidelines for discussing sex toys with your partner.
We'll also cover things to consider before bringing sex toys into the bedroom. So whether you're looking for ways to get more out of your sex life or just want some tips on how to broach the topic with your partner, read on!
Do you want to spice up your sex life?
Are you looking to spice up your sex life? Well, sex toys might just be the answer! Not only are they fun and exciting, but they can also be very beneficial for couples. Whether you're new to sex toys or you're looking to add a new level of excitement to your sex life, this guide will help you get started.
Before you buy a toy, make sure to talk to your partner about what they're into. This way, you'll both be on the same page and have a better idea of what toy(s) would work best for you. Toys come in all shapes and sizes, so it's important to find something that will fit your needs and preferences. If things get too intense or hairy, always pull out the toy(s) and go back to basics! Your sex life will thank you!
How can you make it an experience for both of you?
When it comes to sex toys, it's important to approach the situation with caution. Sex toys can be a fun addition to bedroom play, but they need to be used in a responsible way. Make sure that both partners are on the same page when it comes to toy use and that communication is key. This way, you can both have a great experience and explore all the possibilities sex toys have to offer. Remember: sex toys should only be used during specific times and under specific circumstances. And don't forget to communicate with your partner - letting them know what you're interested in trying can make the experience even better!
Key things that you need to discuss before using sex toys in the bedroom
It is important to be open-minded about sex toys and know what your partner is into. For example, if your partner loves anal play, don't be afraid to get them a toy meant for that specific purpose. Make sure you are both on the same page before jumping into bed with toy though - communication is key in any relationship!
Sizing
There's no doubt that sex toys can play an important role in the bedroom life of couples. However, it is important to find the right size toy for both partners. Not all sizes are created equal and some might not be comfortable for either partner to wear or operate. Once you have found a perfect sex toy size for both of you, get into a position that suits both of you and start playing! Sex toys can add spice (and fun) to your bedroom life, so make sure to experiment together and enjoy every minute!
Allergies
If you're allergic to something, it can be hard to know where to start. Be open and honest about your allergy with your partner - they should know what materials are safe for you.
Likewise, make sure that the sex toy is properly cleaned after use, and avoid using toys made from silicone or latex if you are allergic to them. Instead, look for vibrators that have feathers or ribbed textures which will not cause irritation in sensitive skin.
Stimulation
Sex toys can help add a whole new level of excitement to your bedroom life. If you are uncomfortable with using them, or if your partner isn't too keen on the idea either, talking about it is the best way to get started. You both should be comfortable with what's going on in the bedroom and no one wants an uncomfortable experience! When it comes to choosing a toy, make sure it is both safe and comfortable for you - no one wants their orgasmic experiences ruined by some lousy vibrator. And lastly? Have fun!
Cleaning
Cleaning sex toys is an important part of keeping them healthy and bacteria-free. Here are a few tips to help you get started:
- Always clean the sex toy with mild soap and warm water or toy cleaner (available at most pharmacies). Make sure that the toy is completely dry before storing it away.
- If you notice any build-up of bacteria, use a mild soap and warm water or toy cleaner on a regular basis to keep your sex toys clean and infection-free.
- Talk about what kind of experience you would like to have - this way both of you will be clear about what each other expects!
What to do if your partner just isn’t into it?
Sex toys can be a contentious topic for couples. Some people are shy about them, while others are all about exploring new options. If you're struggling to know if your partner is into sex toys, there's one surefire way to find out - let them show you!
If they're not comfortable with sex toys, it might be best to take things slow until they're more comfortable. In the meantime, sex toy options are bound to be there, so you can choose something that your partner might be more open to. If things don't seem to be progressing or your partner isn't open to sex toys, it's ok to talk about it.
There's no shame in admitting that you're not sure if your spouse is into sex toys, and that you'd like some help exploring this new territory together. With a little bit of communication and compromise, sex toys can be a fun and fulfilling addition to your bedroom life!
How do you broach the topic of sex toys with your partner?
It can be a little nerve-racking to bring up the topic of sex toys with your partner. But thankfully, it's a conversation that can be easily broached by both of you. The first step is to have open communication about any changes or additions you want to make in the bedroom. If you're unsure about whether or not your partner is comfortable with sex toys, ask them directly.
Once you know where your partner stands, it will be easier to start discussing sex toys in more detail. Before you buy sex toys, make sure to ask your partner if they're okay with using them. Sex toys can add spice and excitement to your life as a couple - let's enjoy them together!
Conclusion
Sex toys can be a fun and exciting addition to your sex life. However, it is important to discuss sex toys with your partner before introducing them into the bedroom. By following the Guidelines outlined in this blog, you can ensure an enjoyable and safe experience for both of you. Don't hesitate to drop us a line if you have any additional questions or concerns!
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