Grief and defiance in Kyiv on

Grief and defiance in Kyiv on
6 min read
24 February 2023

Houses have been destroyed, lives uprooted and loved ones lost but despite this terrible toll, Ukrainians remain upbeat

 

Liudmyla Bikus recalled how she had tried to dissuade her son Andrii from joining the army. That was in March, weeks after Vladimir Putin’s invasion of Ukraine, one year ago today. “Andrii told me: ‘Mum if I don’t go then who will?’” Bikus said. She added: “He was a golden boy. The best son, husband, father and brother. He wanted to defend his country and his family.”

Andrii was quickly dispatched to the eastern front. Less than three months later he was dead, fatally wounded on 6 June near the city of Lysychansk. A Russian shell landed on top of his artillery position. He was taken to hospital and died from blood loss on the operating table. Eight men from his company perished in the same lethal strike.

In September Andrii’s widow Natalia planted a blue and yellow flag with her late husband’s name on it in a memorial garden in central Kyiv. It said: “Eternal memory”. The non-official plot is on a grassy slope in the Maidan, the city’s independence square. On Thursday Bikus went to visit. She brought her daughter Alyona, Andrii’s sister.

They couldn’t find the flag. It had somehow got lost among hundreds of new ones, left by grieving relatives. Each marked a victim of Russia’s war: soldiers, civilians, volunteers. There were names, places, dates of birth and death. One said simply: “Anya from Mariupol”. Another: “Roman Stetsiura, 54th brigade, Bakhmut”. Nearby, under a tree, pigeons pecked in the February snow.

“A whole young generation is being wiped out. Guys are dying aged 19 and 20. They will never have children or grandchildren,” Bikus reflected. Andrii was 34. He was buried in Kyiv’s Berkovetske cemetery. His seven-year-old son Misha watched as his father’s coffin was lowered gently into the ground. “There are three or four funerals like ours every day,” Bikus said.

It is a year since the first explosions rocked Ukraine, soon after 4am on 24 February 2022, on a drizzly and grey-skied Thursday morning. Against the odds, Kyiv stills stands, defiant and free. Back then the expectation in Moscow – and among many western politicians – was that Putin’s army would seize Ukraine’s capital in three days. And, most probably, subjugate the whole of the country.

Since then, Ukraine – in the shape of Andrii, and other patriotic volunteers – has staged an extraordinary and inspiring fight back. Putin’s war plan didn’t work. Last spring Russian troops withdrew chaotically from the Kyiv region but not before going on a killing spree in Bucha and other garden suburbs. The town is now synonymous with some of the worst crimes of the 21st century.

 

By late autumn Ukrainian forces had reclaimed half the territory that was initially lost, including most of Kharkiv province in the north-east and the southern administrative capital of Kherson. Since then Russia has dug in. It has sent new reserves to the front. The war rages. Putin is determined to capture – or “liberate”, as he puts it – the entirety of the eastern Donbas region.

The future remains grimly uncertain. What can be said is that the human tragedy from Europe’s biggest war since 1945 is vast. According to Ukraine’s prosecutor, 9,655 civilians have died over the last year, including 461 children. Russia’s full-scale assault – featuring tank columns, airplanes and ships – provoked 8 million people to flee. Houses have been destroyed, lives uprooted, loved ones lost.

Despite this terrible toll, Ukrainians remain upbeat. Almost the entire nation believes in victory: 95%, according to a poll this week. Trust in the army is at 97%. “That we will win is certain,” Alla Schastna said on Thursday, as she bought a coffee from a downtown kiosk. “We know why we are fighting. The Russians soldiers don’t even understand where they are.”

 

Twelve months ago the mood in Kyiv was one of fear and dread. Since then a normality of a kind has returned. Many people have left the capital but others – from Mariupol and Kharkiv, cities pulverised by Russian bombs – have arrived. The electricity works, despite regular attacks. So does the train network. This week it delivered an important visitor: US president Joe Biden.

The war still feels close. From time to time air raid sirens ring out, as they did on Monday when Biden emerged from St Michael’s gold-domed cathedral with president Volodymyr Zelenskiy. There is an 11pm curfew. Already by 9.30pm the cobbled streets of Kyiv – home to art nouveau mansions and glorious baroque churches – are deserted, except for a few dog-walkers.

Nobody knows when the war might end. According to Serhiy Leshchenko – a former journalist and parliamentary deputy, now advising Andriy Yermak, Zelenskiy’s chief of staff – Ukraine has prevailed. “From a historical perspective Ukraine has won,” he said, speaking over breakfast in a Kyiv cafe. He clarified: “We have survived as an independent state with a democratic government.”

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