1️⃣ Stop judging others:
Stop evaluating and judging others without learning about them to have an easier life.
Each person has their own life and we cannot fully understand their situation and suffering without being themselves. When evaluating others without information, that evaluation will lack objectivity, or in other words, we do not have enough knowledge and experience to evaluate.
In addition, evaluating and judging others without grounds, especially talking behind their backs, can lead to conflicts and conflicts.
2️⃣ Control your speech:
Many people often consider themselves straightforward people, so they often say something, without filtering and thinking about whether it's too much or not. However, when they spread hurt to others and make others uncomfortable, that is not being straightforward, but actually lacking grace and not knowing how to deal with others.
The ancients often said: "disaster comes from the mouth", wanting to emphasize that what we say can be harmful if we do not think or consider before speaking.
People who are talented in speaking and know how to control their words will easily build relationships and conquer the hearts of others, and can be considered as having taken a step into the door of success.
3️⃣ Save a little for yourself:
Life requires us to give trust and sincerity, but we should not reveal all of our hearts and should not share everything. Every person has a private life and part of it should be kept secret.
Finding a trustworthy friend in life is lucky, but it is impossible to reveal everything about us to them. You should also never trust too much in one person, to avoid them disappointing you and losing faith in life.
4️⃣ If possible, solve the problem yourself:
In life, you will face countless difficulties and challenges. And there isn't always someone next to you to help you. That's why you should learn how to solve problems yourself before asking someone for help.
Solving problems yourself helps you form a good habit of always finding good solutions to solve difficulties. In addition, difficulties help you gradually become more mature over time. The more you overcome great difficulties, the more steadfast you become.
Therefore, to make your life better and better, learn how to solve problems and difficulties in life without asking anyone for help.
5️⃣ Live kindly:
In life or work, one should not look down on others or even bully someone just because they may seem weak or accommodating.
In society, many people probably believe that it is necessary to show strength and sometimes be a little tough in order to achieve success and live a good life. This may be true to some extent, but in any situation, we must keep our hearts kind. Do not exceed moral limits, never violate moral principles and always live in a correct and kind manner.
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