'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

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30 September 2022
Rami Beracha created this blog to talk about the subject of venture capital. Rami is the Co-Founder of Sosa.
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Communication is one of the biggest issues. It can be a minefield and is entirely our responsibility. It starts within a few seconds after coming into contact with someone, and ends with an amazing explosion...
Our biggest mistake is to think that we're completely in sync in our expectations for each other and not trying to guess what our partner's expectations are of us. There is however one thing that we nearly always can agree on: he does not overlook an opportunity ....to expand the expectations gap. We don't even need anyone to warn us about the upcoming conflict.
There are many causes of confusion. They usually are related to our personal personas. People with square personalities are more likely to not to communicate well with liberal people. Affirmative personalities might have difficulty aligning expectations with passive people. It is simple to recognize the difference between squared from liberals, and aggressive is a distinct thing from passive.
But, what is the likelihood that they're so different and they don't be aware of it. It is possible that there exists a gap in personality between them that exists however, we aren't aware about it. No one has ever detected it, warned others about it, studied it...NOT be a FRAUD! !
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I'd like to introduce you, gentlemen and ladies the new type of personality that we all share: the FULL-CIRCLE personality versus people from the half circle! !
Note - This is a guide for behavior. When you read the following article attempt to determine which type of personality best describes you. Also, try to determine who your partner is in life. If you discover you are distinct personalities - just like Bono says, "we can be one, but not the same", - you should be very happy as you may have discovered the cause of many of your differences. If you're in the same category as me, then I'm sorry to say that I'm unable to help you understand why your relationships seem awfully poor.
Rami Beracha
And here we go...
Two groups of humans are referred to as human. Certain of us are 'full-circle' types which is a person who finds it easy to be alone. Yes, he needs to be around someone else, and he's looking for one. Absolutely! Absolutely! ... But, he can't live without his dream partner until he can find one. He would like to live his life with his love and is hoping to be able to complete his circle.
רמי ברכה
The other side of humanity is comprised of the "half-a-circle" types that are (no, it's not full circles that have been damaged during the delivery) - ... Yes they are in need of an accomplice, yes, they want an ally desperately, yes, they're in constant and almost religious search for a partner... and yes, it's the same as matters of national security to locate their ideal partner as they simply cannot survive without one. They won't let go of the miserable creature after they have found it. To create a happy circle, they will almost integrate with their victim... however, don't let them do this thing of living side by side! The Halves aren't willing to sacrifice anything other than staring at each opposite from a distance of a single pixel for the rest of their lives. Nothing less intimate will fulfill their desire to be integrated with one another and form an entire.
One of the most fascinating observations between different types is how they decide to leave their partner. The entire circle will surely let go of a partner who is losing their chemistry rapidly. Half-circle people, however, redefine what 'having mutually in chemistry with their partners is referring to - 'I'm holding on to this B..ST..RD until I can safely replace them with a suitable upgrade'.
Imagine a dance where two half-circles and a complete circle are trying to make their partner feel happy. But, the Half is able to make two steps to the left of the safety zone. The sudden invasion of his personal space is a bit daunting. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he took half of his comfort zone .... and, while the Half was convinced that the Full made an error that was innocent The Half starts to get angry and takes a step backward. They aren't sure why, however, they don't have the proper terminology and can't explain the situation. So they go to the wrong place. They could have avoided their own misery if they had known the difference between Half and Full.
There isn't one answer to this essay. However, there are some action items:
1. Find out who you really are.
2. Discover who is your partner really is.
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3. There is a difference.
3. Respect this difference!
Rami Beracha
One conclusion could be drawn: Live and let live.
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