'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha blogs about the world of venture capital. Rami is co-founder and CEO at Sosa.
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Communication is a major problem. I'd say it's kind of a minefield that is our own creation .. It is triggered a second after making contact with a person and then ends with an astonishing explosion...
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Our biggest error is when we believe that there is complete co-operation in the expectations of our partners but never bother to understand the expectations of our partner. We are almost always fully in agreement with our counterpart, minus one aspect : he doesn't overlook the chance to increase the gap in expectations . No one is there to warn us of the imminent clash.
There are many sources of confusion, and they are usually caused by our personalities. Square personalities are more likely to communicate in a misguided manner than liberal personalities, while individuals who are aggressive may have trouble aligning their expectations with the expectations of passive people. This isn't difficult to identify - we all recognize squared from liberal and aggressive from passive.
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What if they are very different, but they do not be aware of that. Consider the gap in personality. Nobody has ever found it or been warned of or studied it. !
I'd like to introduce you, gentlemen and ladies, a new type if personality that we all share with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus those from the HALF circle! !
Note – This is behavioral guidance. After reading the following analysis, try to determine which type of persona best represents your personality. At the same time, try to figure who your partner in real life. If you discover that you're of two different types, as Bono declares "we're one but we're not alike" You should be happy. It is possible that you have discovered the root-cause of some of the differences in your life! If however you're of the same kind I'm sorry, but I can't help you understand the reason why your relationships appear to be shit...
And here we go...
There are two kinds of human beings that are called humans. A few of us fall under the "full-circle" category, which is an individual who is totally independent and does not feel like he needs a partner. He does want to be a part of a group and sure, he's always seeking an individual to share his experiences with. Absolutely! It's all true ... But, until he's found his ideal partner, he can live without one. He is determined to spend his entire life with his partner, and he is hopeful to be able to complete his circle.
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The "half of a circle" people on the other side need an accomplice. They are not going to let go of their miserable animal once they find it. They will work to physically integrate their victim into a happy circle. They will not compromise their desire to be able to stare at each others for the rest of their lives. It's impossible to make them feel more intimate than that.
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The choice to let go is a common observation. The entire circle will surely get rid of a partner who has lost their chemistry quickly. The half-circle's on the other hand redefine the concept of 'having the same chemistry' as their partners to mean: 'I'm holding on to this B..ST..RD. Until I can replace him properly'.
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Imagine the amazing dance that happens when a "half" and "full" circle attempt to make each other their counterparts. They're unaware of their different perspectives. The Half takes two leaps in the air, way beyond the comfort zone of his Full who finds the sudden intrusion into his personal space a little too scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he made the Half step out of his comfort zone ...... The Half is aware that the Full was making an error that was not his fault, and he makes another step backward.. But the Half quickly gets angry and starts to make an even bigger and more aggressive step.. The Half and the Full are aware of the reason, but they lack proper terms. They're unable to adequately explain their anguish so they look for the wrong thing. They could have saved their lives by knowing that one is Half and the other one is Full.
Although there isn't a single answer, there are many actions that can be taken.
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1. Find out more about who you are.
2. Find out who your partner really is
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3. Recognize the difference.
3. Respect this distinction!
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Actually, there is a conclusion that is true: Live and let live.