'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

Rami Beracha's blog on the venture capital industry. Rami is the co-founder and CEO of Sosa.
Communication is a huge issue. It is a minefield caused by us. It begins seconds after our first encounter with someone, and culminates in an incredible explosion...
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The biggest error we make is always taking for granted that there is a complete alignment of expectations for both sides. We don't attempt to read our partner's thoughts to find the expectations he has. One thing we can be sure of, however: our partner doesn't miss any opportunity to increase this expectation gap . There is no one to tell us about the imminent conflict.
There are a myriad of reasons that could lead to confusion. People who are squared are more likely than liberal individuals to communicate poorly, while aggressive personalities might have trouble getting their expectations in line with passive. But this is easy to recognize - we know squared from liberal, and aggressive from passive.
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What if they were different? Imagine the personality gap. It has never been discovered by anyone, warned about it, or investigated it...NOT even EVER FREUD! !
Ladies and gentlemen, let me present to you a different type of personality The FULL and the HALF CIRCLE personalities! !
The analysis intended to provide behavioral guidance. When you go through this analysis, you will be able to identify which personality describes you best. Also, you can try to find your spouse in your life. You may be surprised to discover that your personalities are different. As Bono said, "we are one, however, we're not exactly the identical." It's a positive sign since it could indicate that you've found the root cause of many of your differences. If, for instance you're of the same type and you are not, I am sorry, but I can't help you understand why you are in relationships that seem so bad.
Let's start...
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Two kinds of human beings exist. Some of us fall into the "full-circle" category that is a person who is totally independent and does not feel like he needs to have a partner. He does want to partner with others and, sure, he's always on the lookout for an individual to share his experiences with. Absolutely! It's all true! ... It is possible to live without his ideal partner. He would like to live his life with his beloved, and he is hopeful to be able to complete his circle.
The other side of humanity is made up of "half-a-circle" kind of people - (no it's not full circles that have been damaged during the birth) The other side of humanity is comprised of the "half-a-circle" types ... Yes, they need an accomplice and yes, they need an ally desperately, indeed, they are in constant, almost religious, search for a new partner... and , yes, it's on the same scale for national security to locate their ideal partner as they just cannot survive without one. They won't let go once they have found their miserable partner. They will work to physically integrate their victim to create one happy circle. The Halves will never compromise their affection for one another. They will stare at each one another in the same manner from a distance for the rest. Only intimacy can satisfy their need to connect to one another and create an entire.
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The decision to let go is a common observation. The entire circle will undoubtedly get rid of a partner who has lost their connection quickly. The 'half-a-circle' types however, will redefine the definition of 'having mutual chemistry with their companions as 'I'm holding on to this B..ST..RD until I am able to replace him with a proper upgrade'.
Imagine the dance where two half-circles and a complete circle are trying to make their partner feel happy. But, the Half can make two steps to the left of the comfortable zone. The sudden invasion of his personal space is slightly intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. Problem is, he made the Half move out of his familiar zone ...... The Half is aware that the Full was making an innocent error, so they take another step backwards.. But the Half soon becomes upset and takes the same step.. They don't know why however, they don't have the proper terminology and can't explain the situation. They go to the wrong places. If they only knew that one is a Half and the other one is Full, it could have helped them ...
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While this piece is not intended to provide a complete list of guidelines, there are steps you can take.
1. Learn who you are
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2. Find out who your partner is
3. Realize that there is a big difference.
3. Respect that different!
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Let's be honest and say that there's only one conclusion Live and let be.