'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

This blog is written by Rami Beracha, a venture capitalist from the world. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.
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Communication is a major problem. I'd venture to say that it's a dangerous hazard that we created .. It begins moments after the first contact and culminates in an amazing explosion...
Rami Beracha
Our biggest mistake is to assume that we're in complete alignment in our expectations of each side without trying to figure out what our partner expects from us. There is one thing which we are in total agreement with our partner on - he also doesn't miss an opportunity to widen this expectation gap .... There is no one to warn us about the coming clash.
There are many causes for miscommunications, and most of them have to do with our personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to miscommunicate frequently with liberal personalities. Affirmative personalities might struggle to align their expectations with passive individuals. This is easy to see that squared personalities can be distinguished from liberals, and aggressive individuals can be distinguished from passive.
But, what is the likelihood that they're so different, but they do not be aware of that. Imagine to yourself that there exists a sort of personality gap that exists but that we are not aware of. It's not something anyone has investigated, warned of, or traced. !
רמי ברכה
Ladies and gentlemen, I'd like to introduce you to a brand new kind of personality that is shared by all of us: the FULL CIRCLE versus the HALLF CIRCLE personalities! !
Note : This is a behavior guidance. After you've read the analysis, you should try to determine which type of you are the most like in your character. In addition look for which person your companion in real life is. If you realize that you're distinct personalities - just like Bono says, "we can be one however we are not the same" You should be very content as you may have discovered the root-cause behind some of your differences. If, on one hand you're the same type I'm sorry but I cannot help you understand why you have relationships that look so bad.
רמי ברכה
We are here...
We humans are divided into two. Some of us are the 'full-circle' types which is a person who is completely comfortable alone. He needs a partner. Absolutely! Absolutely! ... However, he cannot survive without his dream companion until he finds one. If he can find the right person then he'll be able to enjoy his life with his full circle of companions.
The "half-a circle" kind is the opposite side of humanity. (No it's not a full-circle that was damaged during the delivery). Once they have found the awful creature that they have found, they won't let go! To create a happy circle, they nearly join with their victim... however, don't let them do this bullshit of living side by side! The Halves won't accept anything less than looking at one another from a distance for the rest. Their desire to become one with their partner and form a unit will only be satisfied by things that aren't as intimate.
An interesting observation among the kinds is the way they choose to let go of their partner. Someone who is no longer chemistry-wise within the circle will be released in a natural way by the entire circle. On the other hand, half-circle types redefine the meaning of chemistry between couples to be - "I am holding onto this B..ST..RD., until I can replace him with a better version."
Rami Beracha
Imagine the amazing dance taking place in the moment two "half-a-circle" and the "full-circle" attempt to be their partner, without being aware of their different geometries: the Half joyfully makes two steps forward, way past the comfort zone of the Full who considers this unwelcome invasion of his personal space bit intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. Problem is, he made the Half move out of his familiar area ...... The Half is aware that the Full has made an innocent mistake, so they take another step backwards.. However, the Half quickly gets angry and begins to take a bigger, more aggressive step.. They are unable to explain their pain and don't know why. The victims could have been spared by knowing that the item they're searching for is Half and the other is full.
Rami Beracha
While there's no one conclusion, there are steps you can take.
1. Learn who you truly are
2. Find out more about your partner
3. Know the difference.
3. Respect that difference!
רמי ברכה
In reality, one conclusion is that is true: Live and let live.