'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha

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Rami Beracha writes about the world of venture capital. Rami is Co-Founder of Sosa.
Communication is one of the biggest issues. It's almost like an open-air minefield. It begins seconds after our first encounter with someone, and culminates in an incredible explosion...
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Our greatest mistake is to assume complete alignment in each other's expectations but never bother to comprehend our partner's expectations. However, there is one thing we can almost always can agree on: he does not miss the chance ....to increase the expectations gap There is no one to tell us about the upcoming conflict.
There are a variety of reasons that lead to communication issues, and the majority of them are related to our personalities. Square people are more likely to communicate in a misguided manner more than liberal people, while individuals who are aggressive may have trouble in coordinating their expectations with those of passive individuals. However, this is not difficult to spot - we know that liberal is squared, and aggressive from passive.
What do you think if they're very different, only they cannot recognize it. Imagine to yourself that there's a type of personality gap that exists, but we are not aware of. It's not something anyone has investigated, warned of, or identified. !
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Ladies and gentlemen let me present to you an entirely different kind of personality The FULL and half circle personalities! !
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Note - A behavioral guidance - when you read the following analysis, try to figure out which one of the two personalities define you the best, and also look for out who your partner in life is. If you realize that you're different kinds - as Bono song says "we are one but we are not the same" You should be extremely happy as you may have just discovered the cause of some of your differences! If you're of the opposite kind I'm sorry to help you comprehend the reasons your relationships look like a mess.
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So, here we go...
Two types of human beings are there. Certain of us are "full-circle" types who are self-contained and is completely comfortable by himself. He does need a partner, yes that he would like to have a partner and yes, he's on a constant search for the right partner. Absolutely! Absolutely! ... However, he will have to live without the perfect partner until he does. He would like to share his life with his beloved and is determined to complete his circle.
The other human side is made up of "half-a-circle" kinds (not to be confused with "half-a-circle") (no it's not full circles that were damaged during the birth) The other side of humanity is comprised of the "half-a-circle" types ... Yes they require partners and yes, they need to find a partner very badly, and yes, they're constantly, almost religious, search for a partner... and , yes, it's as important for national security to find their partner because they can't live without one. And once they have found the miserable animal, they DO NOT LET GO! They will move to almost physically join their victim in order to form a happy circle... and don't give them this bullshit of living shoulder-to-shoulder! The Halves do not want to compromise their desire to gaze at each at each other from a distance that is zero for the rest. They will not compromise on anything less intimate to meet their need to join with each other and make a complete.
A fascinating observation of the two types is the decision to leave a partner. The full circle is likely to let go relatively quickly from an individual he no longer has his chemistry with. The half-circle's on the other side will redefine the idea of having chemistry' with their partners to mean: 'I'm holding the B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him correctly'.
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Imagine a dance where the half-circle and the full circle try to please their partner. The half is able to move two steps ahead of the safety zone. The sudden invasion of his personal space is slightly scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. However, by the fact taking the Half out of his comfort zone. When .... The Half is convinced that the Full made an innocent wrong move and take a step to make up for it with a step forward. The Full becomes angry and make another, bigger step in the opposite direction.. the Half begins to suspect that there's something wrong regarding what's happening this time and his next move isn't exactly gentle.. the Full.. The Half.. the Half and the Full are irritated with each other. They don't know why however, they don't have the proper terminology and can't explain it. Therefore, they head to the wrong areas. If they had known that one of them is a Half and the other one is Full, it could have saved their lives ...
There isn't any single solution, there are a few steps you can do.
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1. Learn more about who you are.
2. Find out who your real partner is.
3. Realize there is a difference.
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3. Respect differences!
One conclusion could be drawn"Live and let live.
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